{"id":39,"date":"2019-09-09T06:26:33","date_gmt":"2019-09-09T06:26:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/?p=39"},"modified":"2019-09-09T06:26:33","modified_gmt":"2019-09-09T06:26:33","slug":"casual-encounters-the-top-seven-rules-you-should-follow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/casual-encounters-the-top-seven-rules-you-should-follow\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 7 Rules For Casual Encounters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/where-can-i-find-casual-encounters-like-in-craigslist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">casual encounter<\/a>, casual sex, or a hookup can be an exciting and fulfilling experience for both parties, creating some of the best sex in recent memory.\u00a0 Many people actively seek these types of encounters while others enjoy them as they become available.\u00a0 Whether this is a big part of your sex life or if you are willing to pursue a casual encounter when the opportunity presents itself, here are seven key things to keep in mind that will ensure any casual sex goes well.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Establish Boundaries<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Know yourself and know what you want or expect from any casual encounter.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t expect too much and don&#8217;t expect too little.\u00a0 Be clear and honest with yourself and your partner to keep any misunderstanding to a minimum.\u00a0 Remember, this is not a serious relationship, it is casual!\u00a0 Enjoy your time together and have great sex but understand that this may be the one and only time together.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be Safe \u2013 Be Smart<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A casual encounter can be exciting, thrilling and adventurous, but safety first.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t go back to your place if you never plan to see this person again.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t go to their place if you don&#8217;t feel safe.\u00a0 A nearby local hotel is a neutral ground and great alternative.\u00a0 Let friends know where you are headed and when you might be back home.\u00a0 You don&#8217;t have to share the details but having someone know where you provide you with security and peace of mind.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be Open and Adventurous<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Casual sex with a relatively unknown partner is a great opportunity to experiment with something new or pursue a new sexual experience.\u00a0 Express your desires and see if they are into the same thing.\u00a0 Be open to their desires as well as your own, embrace them if they are within your boundaries, and enjoy your encounter to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t Get Personal<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Keep the conversation superficial or limited to things that interest both of you.\u00a0 There is no need to share your life history or details about yourself, where you work, or who your friends are.\u00a0 This helps minimize any temptation to become more intimately connected and helps the two of you go your separate ways when the adventure is over.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Show Respect<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Be respectful of your partner and treat them as a valued human being.\u00a0 Kindness and respect to a long way toward making people feel good about themselves.\u00a0 Whether or not you expect or desire to ever see this person again, be the best person you can be.\u00a0 Thank them when its all over and show appreciation for your time together.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Practice Safe Sex<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It goes without saying that in any sexual relationship, everyone should practice safe sex.\u00a0 The is never more important than in a casual encounter.\u00a0 You may not have time to reveal to each other your sexual background and any issues or concerns.\u00a0 You certainly do not want to discover in the next week or two that you have contracted an STD or have an unwanted pregnancy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Limited Follow-Up<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want to see your partner again, make it clear at the end of your encounter and then don&#8217;t follow up.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t exchange phone numbers or email addresses.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t text or message them.\u00a0 If the sex was awesome and you want some more, contact them and let them know exactly that.\u00a0 See if they are interested in hooking up again, or not.\u00a0 Any ongoing communication only encourages an ongoing relationship.<\/p>\n<p>YOU MAY LIKE:<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"entry-title\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/5-mistakes-that-you-should-avoid-making-on-casual-sex-app\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">5 Mistakes That You Should Avoid Making on Casual Sex App<\/a><\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A casual encounter, casual sex, or a hookup can be an exciting and fulfilling experience for both parties, creating some of the best sex in recent memory.\u00a0 Many people actively seek these types of encounters while others enjoy them as&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/casual-encounters-the-top-seven-rules-you-should-follow\/\" class=\"readmore\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Top 7 Rules For Casual Encounters<\/span><span class=\"fa fa-angle-double-right\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","content-layout-excerpt-thumb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39\/revisions\/40"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}