{"id":74,"date":"2019-09-09T09:46:59","date_gmt":"2019-09-09T09:46:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/?p=74"},"modified":"2019-09-09T09:46:59","modified_gmt":"2019-09-09T09:46:59","slug":"10-hookup-tips-for-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/10-hookup-tips-for-men\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Hookup Tips For Men"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hookups, or one-night stands, are a wonderful concept that most men fantasize about on a regular basis.\u00a0 Some men only dream about the possibility.\u00a0 Some will get lucky and experience hookups on occasion, and other men just seem to have the right combination of good looks, suave debonair and luck to enjoy them on a regular basis.\u00a0 For any man who wants to experience the excitement and intrigue of a hookup, there are some things that are easy to do to increase the chances of a hookup happing.<\/p>\n<p>Great hookups and one-night stands can be a challenge to pull off because plenty of things can go wrong between the first hello and the next day.\u00a0 However, with the right attitude, proper preparation, and a boost in self-confidence, a great hookup can be yours.\u00a0 Start with the following ten tips and get ready for some intense and exciting casual sex!<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Look your best, be your best \u2013 the vast majority of women looking for a hookup are judging potential partners mostly on their looks and then their personality. Prepare yourself by cleaning up and dressing well in stylish clothes so you look good from across the room.\u00a0 Whether she approaches you or you approach her, smile, be pleasant and friendly.\u00a0 Show interest in her and what she has to say.<\/li>\n<li>Search in the right places \u2013 some places and events are more promising for finding a hookup than others. Check out potential hookup partners at weddings, birthday bashes, dance clubs, nightclubs, or romantic vacation places like the beach.\u00a0 On the other hand, work events, more formal dinner parties and family gatherings are not the places to search.<\/li>\n<li>Watch her actions \u2013 you are at a prime location, now look for the girl who is bubbly, dancing, flirting, making eye contact with others, and checking out the room. If she appears approachable, fun-loving and looking for something, maybe that something is you!\u00a0 Approach her with confidence and open with a straightforward introduction.\u00a0 Nothing overly witty or corny here.\u00a0 Then pay attention to how she responds and follow her lead.\u00a0 Does she smile, respond with excitement or focus only on you?\u00a0 Great, you are off to a good start.\u00a0 Does she seem disinterested, short or distracted?\u00a0 Time to move along.<\/li>\n<li>Get to know each other \u2013 before jumping into bed, take some time to get to know each other a bit. No need to exchange detailed personal information, but find out a little about your potential partner.\u00a0 Now is a great time to ask about her fantasies, its can get the mood rolling early and give you some idea about what she might be interested in doing later<\/li>\n<li>Mutual respect \u2013 even for a hookup or one-night stand, treat your partner with respect and dignity. You are both in it for enjoyment, so enjoy but be respectful.\u00a0 Treat them like you want to be treated.<\/li>\n<li>Make it enjoyable for her too! \u2013 many men look at a hookup only as one dimensional, only for their pleasure and satisfaction. Remember there are two of you in bed.\u00a0 Ask her what she likes and give her some special attention too.\u00a0 If she is enjoying herself, you will have a better time too.<\/li>\n<li>Spend some time afterward \u2013 don\u2019t just head out the door once the activities are over. Ask her if she wants to spend more time together.\u00a0 Women more than men often prefer to spend time together afterward.\u00a0 Even if its simply falling asleep together for the night, spend the night and enjoy some non-sexual time together before leaving with grace and dignity.<\/li>\n<li>Be honest \u2013 be honest with yourself about what you expect and desire. Ask her the same.\u00a0 Knowing upfront what both of you expect will help eliminate hurt feelings and disappointments later.\u00a0 If you are not looking for anything more than a hookup, let her know.<\/li>\n<li>Be prepared \u2013 bring a condom or two with you so you are ready for action. There is no reason to not be prepared and risk contracting an STD or having an unplanned pregnancy.\u00a0 Be smart \u2013 be prepared.<\/li>\n<li>Be open to more \u2013 if the two of you hit it off and you think there might be something more, be open to the idea. Your partner may or may not feel the same way, but let them know and be ready to accept their response either way.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hookups, or one-night stands, are a wonderful concept that most men fantasize about on a regular basis.\u00a0 Some men only dream about the possibility.\u00a0 Some will get lucky and experience hookups on occasion, and other men just seem to have&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/10-hookup-tips-for-men\/\" class=\"readmore\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">10 Hookup Tips For Men<\/span><span class=\"fa fa-angle-double-right\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":75,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice","content-layout-excerpt-thumb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=74"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":76,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74\/revisions\/76"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=74"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=74"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=74"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}