{"id":88,"date":"2019-09-10T06:29:35","date_gmt":"2019-09-10T06:29:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/?p=88"},"modified":"2019-09-10T06:29:35","modified_gmt":"2019-09-10T06:29:35","slug":"what-do-women-think-about-after-having-a-one-night-stand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/what-do-women-think-about-after-having-a-one-night-stand\/","title":{"rendered":"What Do Women Think About After Having A One-Night Stand?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Women and men have a different approach, thought the process and physiological makeup about sex and intimacy.\u00a0 This is true in all aspects of sexual relationships and certainly true when it comes to one-night stands.\u00a0 Men may be able to enjoy a casual hookup<\/a> and then move on with their life feeling satisfied and fulfilled by the evening, not looking back.\u00a0 Women, on the other hand, need to process the events of the night, evaluate their feelings and ensure that everything is in a good place before comfortably moving forward.<\/p>\n

Regardless of how the night went, how great the sex was, or how exciting and energizing the evening was, the first things a woman feels the next day is usually regret.\u00a0 This is especially true of her first-time one-night stand.\u00a0 The feeling of regret can be very strong, fueled by her feelings of insecurity, embarrassment at being in a vulnerable situation with a stranger, guilt, and possibly shame.\u00a0 Her regret is a complex feeling mixed with others that will take some time for her to sort out and begin to feel more comfortable about.<\/p>\n

After the initial feelings of regret settle in and she begins to accept and process the situation, a woman’s next step is to retrace everything about last night and the one-night stand in detail to answer the question of \u201cWhat really happened?\u201d\u00a0 She will rewind to her feelings and activities leading up to the moment she met her hookup and decipher the things she was feeling and thinking that lead to her decision to pursue the one-night stand.\u00a0 Next, she will evaluate the wooing process and re-discover all the things that attracted her to this partner and made the possibility of the hookup exciting and real.\u00a0 This will be followed quickly by re-living as many details of their intimate activities as possible to discover what she enjoyed the most and what she might regret having done.\u00a0 Finally, she will evaluate how the one-night stand ended and explore how she feels about herself.\u00a0 All of this processing is critically important for a woman to feel good about herself, her decisions and her actions in the context of her everyday life.<\/p>\n

At some point during all of this emotional processing, or immediately afterward, her logical and responsible self steps in to ask the question, \u201cWere you responsible?\u201d\u00a0 Worried both about becoming pregnant or contracting a sexually transmitted disease, this is a vitally important question that must be answered right away.\u00a0 Did she practice safe sex?\u00a0 If there was a lot of alcohol involved during the evening, this might be a difficult question to answer.\u00a0 She might have to search for the empty condom wrapper, or worse, ask her partner for the answer.\u00a0 Hopefully, she can quickly and with certainty reassure herself that she did indeed practice safe sex.\u00a0 If not, this can be an ongoing nagging issue that can become a significant cause of worry as time passes.<\/p>\n

Finally, if the evening went well if the sex was great, and if she is still attracted to her one-night stand partner in the morning, a woman might begin to consider what’s next.\u00a0 Clearly, on the morning after she has a high priority to leave, process all of her feelings, and return to her daily life.\u00a0 However, after evaluating the hookup, her feelings, and how much she enjoyed the experience, she might start thinking about hooking up again for some more great sex, or even wonder if there is potential for a longer-term relationship.<\/p>\n

A woman needs to feel good about the experience and herself after any one-night stand.\u00a0 She may end up regretting parts of the encounter but typically will walk away feeling positive about herself and the night.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Women and men have a different approach, thought the process and physiological makeup about sex and intimacy.\u00a0 This is true in all aspects of sexual relationships and certainly true when it comes to one-night stands.\u00a0 Men may be able to… Read moreWhat Do Women Think About After Having A One-Night Stand?<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":89,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","content-layout-excerpt-thumb"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":90,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88\/revisions\/90"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.justbewild.com\/wild-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}