Looking for your first hookup? Finding it could be easier than you think. By following the right tips, you’ll be able to hook up with a girl in no time, even if you haven’t had much success in the past. In this guide, we’ll go over some of the most important steps to follow when it comes to securing that first hookup. Keep reading to find out how you can make yours happen soon!
1. Know Where to Find Her
Where do you intend on meeting your partner? You’ll need to decide this first. Many men have success on dating apps such as Tinder, while others find it more useful to go to bars. You need to decide whether you’re more of an online or in-person guy so that you can base your strategy around that. Of course, the chances that you can land a partner in person are higher because most people are more willing to hook up with individuals they’ve seen face to face. Still, Tinder hookups happen every day, so don’t count yourself out if bars and clubs simply aren’t your thing.
Once you have met your desired partner, it’s important that you don’t view her as just a sex object. Remember that your partner is a human, as well. It’s likely that she’ll be turned off by immediate sex talk, even if you look like Elvis Presley. And while you don’t need to get too personal (it is a one-night stand, after all), you want to be sure that you’re treating her with respect, especially if she doesn’t seem interested.
Here’s a pro-tip: unsolicited pictures of your penis likely won’t get you very far. Instead, you should focus on building a minimal relationship with your partner if you’re chatting online or spend some time with her at the bar if the two of you seem to hit it off. Doing this will help you find someone you feel comfortable having your first hookup with, as this person will also be comfortable with you.
2. Have Your Own Place
No matter where you meet your partner, having your own place will go a long way to securing your hookup. Not everyone feels like spending money at sketchy motels (or wants to be seen there). You’ll find more girls are willing to hook up with you if you have a place where they can do so discretely and comfortably. Remember, to most women, there’s not much attractive about a man without his own place, anyway. Telling your prospective partner that you still live with mom or dad is a sure-fire way to end the night. For this reason, be sure to have your own place where the two of you can enjoy a private evening.
By the same token, it never hurts to have your own vehicle. Your partner won’t always have a ride, so being there to spot her just in case will help you bring your hookup to fruition. The truth of the matter is that women correlate these material goods to status (which correlates with desirability), so not having either one of these goods can hurt your chance of a hookup.
3. Take Care of Your Looks
You don’t need to look like Captain America to get laid. If you did, 99% of the male population would be virgins. Still, that doesn’t mean that you can look however you want. If you want to hook up with a woman, you’ll need to take care of your looks. This means following proper grooming protocol, getting a haircut, and keeping up with your hygiene. Here’s pro tip number two: no woman will want to be with you if you stink.
Of course, it doesn’t hurt if you are fit, either. While there are women out there who love all body types, your chances of success will increase with greater fitness. For this reason, consider engaging in some form of exercise if you aren’t where you need to be. Even if your face is on the average (or below average) side, you’ll be able to win some women over with the strength of your body.
The Bottom Line
Hooking up doesn’t have to be difficult. By following the three steps in this guide, you can greatly increase your chances of having your first hookup. Always remember that securing a hookup is a combination of personality (how you treat her), status (whether you have your own house/car/means to actually engage in the hookup), and looks (whether you look good/fit/put together). By taking care of these factors, you’ll find that you are instantly more desirable to women.
So don’t wait! If you’re still looking for your first hookup, it’s time to put these steps into action. The sooner you get started, the sooner you’ll be able to find the woman who is willing to take a chance on you.
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